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I crashed, then left in the morning for work. Because he said I should ask questions if I needed to, I asked if I had been any good at playing a sub. Hours later I get "hey [my name], sorry I'm just not feeling it" and nothing else.
I asked what the issue was, because I was fairly certain he enjoyed himself, and it was so sudden and fro of the blue, but haven't gotten any replies. Did I get douped by a fake, in your opinion, or did I manage to put him off or what? I can handle him being a player but to just suddenly disappear after months of discussions and whatnot was more than a little confusing, especially after all the talking we did about me trying out being a sub.
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I am currently under review by one but then another has come along. I have never had a sub dom relationship before. The original dom has a temporary sub atm! That, of course, takes time.
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