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Though he isn't sorry for what he's done I'll forgive him. I'm turning 29 next month and I'm really cool with being single except for the part that I really wanna raise my own kid while I'm still young. Am a single mother of 27 and I feel Older the betterover 40s for friend/lovers all my friends are married and happily in relationships,it hurts a lot more especially cos my baby daddy dsnt help me financially,am depressed. I do have days where being single sucks.
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One of my friends recently got her first boyfriend. One of my other friends just got into another relationship. While I feel jealous, I'm not an asshole, so I do the right thing and congratulate them. This year really sucked for me because I tried getting into a relationship but was told that I wasn't good enough. It would have been my first relationship ever. I've never gone on a date before, either.
I feel like since that day I was told that, I've lost hope in dating and tried going on dating apps to connect with someone, but my anxiety and lack of confidence have been stopping me from talking with anyone. I also have high functioning autism, which makes me extremely shy and socially awkward.
I go to counseling to improve on my social skills and anxiety. I'm also really weird and have gotten comments from people about it. Because of this, I feel like a freak and try to act as normal as possible. But I can't be that person if I'm going to be depressed because I've been miserable about being single this year. It's also Christmastime and I don't want anyone seeing me upset.
I just want to be over, and hopefully will be so much better for me. I can't help but hurt when I see happy couples. You hear songs about love every day on the radio, see it on TV, see it in games, see it when you go out.
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Regardless how good I feel about myself and how many activities I participate in,all men see in me a failure. Yes I am not gorgeous, but I have a beautiful soul. I am tall, skinny, clever. But all these men see is a girl good enough to sleep with and then ghost. I have been ghosted by men who are under me in terms of character and I do not have any luck in finding an honest decent man. I'm 20 this year still not official. Yea yea i know, im still young, still got a long way to go.
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I have this thought Opder my head that saying I will never find a perfect guy who will treat me right and not asking me to change whoever I am.
I met this one guy online and we have been in a long distance relationship.
It was crazy as we never met in real life. And you must be wondering how we actually keep up with each other in terms of intimacy and stuff like that. Like I just friend/loers you. Well we've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
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And things still went okay as he couldnt let me go and so did I. During those times too, he met a other girl and started saying that he liked her and thinking of letting me go as he thought that this is not gonna work.
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I come home night after night alone with thoughts that I will never have someone love me for me. The relationship I had lasted a year and a half. Things at the beginning were perfect. I didn't want anything to ruin it. However, it doesn't last. That is what most people call the Honeymoon phase. At the start of this year,I have began to feel more and more alone due to my girlfriend's schedule followed by illness. I have supported her biggest hobby; teaching snowboarding to children.
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